Every cancer diagnosis is difficult, but processing the words no parent should ever have to endure; and certainly no innocent child, is devastating.
When first confronted with your child’s cancer diagnosis you may feel overcome with feelings of hopelessness; as if the ground underneath you had given away. You may feel numb, confused, or unable to hear or remember information about the diagnosis or treatment. You may also feel overwhelmed by powerful and painful emotions … believe it or not; these reactions are normal.
A seemingly normal family in an extraordinary situation … Childhood cancer strikes a terrible blow that affects, without exception, all the members of the family. The diagnosis often means surgery as well as chemotherapy or radiation, or both, along with their unpleasant side-effects. And, looming in the background of it all is the unspoken worry: “Will my child get through this?” Not only is there doubt and worry about the future, but there will be major life disruptions from the time of diagnosis throughout treatment.
How would you cope with the “new normal”?
Between 800 and 1000 South African children under the age of 15 are diagnosed with cancer each year. Thankfully, more than 80% of children beat cancer and go on to lead happy and productive adult lives.
So, Mom and Dad, try never to lose your joy during this difficult journey. Celebrate the small victories and show resilience during the battles. Make sure that your child can draw strength from your smile every day.
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